How do I feel when you create a good condition with me? How do I feel when you create a bad condition with me?In fact, as you have all experienced,how do you feel when others create a bad condition with you?
Do you still want to help him with that thing he asked you for? Do you still have any force to help him ? Do you still have the mind to help him ? Do you still have the mood to help him ? No!
If the other party always creates a good condition for you and he does not want to gain something from you , but now you can benefit him, will you ? Yes !
Why is that? You do not know why you will help him, benefit him, or even give it to him.
This is called the acting force of the arisal of conditions.
If you can grasp these conditions well, and fully realize that they can make you succeed in and destroy everything, as the saying goes, “One word can make a country flourish, and one word can also destroy a country” ,then you can do everything easily in your life. But if you can’t grasp these conditions well, you will be miserable.
If you want something to be successful, use the corresponding conditions to make something successful (for example: a smile, a kind word, offering something);If you want to fail to do something, do it with the corresponding conditions that make something fail. The conditions to make something successful, are the good conditions, to make others happy and can achieve your own goals.
To destroy the wisdom of the conditions is affliction. You must be sure to pay attention to the fault and trouble of the affliction, because the affliction will only make you do the opposite.
Because you have greed, and are self-centered in everything, and you can not respect others,you will destroy the conditions. Because you have hatreds, “When you think of hatreds in a thought, a million obstructive doors will open for you.” All the obstructions to good things will all come for you, and all the doors to bad things will all open for you.