Your words and deeds are highlighting your personal pattern and style. People who feel it will position for you according to your personal pattern and style. So we cannot let the troubles and emotions engage in our words and deeds which will navigate our lives to tragic ending!
For example, the person who you face with is always annoying, of emotional manner, appearance, words and actions, what are you feeling and what will happen? If the people who are around you are always humble, gentle, considerate and well-behaved, then what is your feeling and what will happen?